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writes: How do you get a guy out of your system for good? I'm trying the no contact rule at the moment, which has lasted a week so far. I want to remove him from facebook but haven't got the willpower yet but i have deleted his number. I really need to do this because he has a girlfriend but seems like he wants to mess around with me and i don't want to hurt anybody anymore, especially myself. Does anybody have any tips that actually work?
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (9 November 2010):
 If you can delete his number, then you can stop stalking him on Facebook as well. Block him from Facebook, then you won't be tempted to look at his statuses. Start again with the no contact rule. Take everything that he has given you, gifts, shirts he has left at your house, put it in a box and drop it off at the Salvation Army. What is now trash will be someone else's treasure. That way you cleanse your place of items that remind you of him. Take all pictures, rip them up, or I like to burn them..a little bonfire if you will. Surround yourself with friends, take up hobbies to fill up time slots in your day, and a little rebound never hurt anyone. Engage in casual dating. Give yourself about 1-3 months to get over him, but stay strong.
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reader, DenimandLace44 +, writes (9 November 2010):
 Honey, if we had the answer to that we would all be rich. There is no tried and proven way. What works for one, may not work for the next person...and what works for them, may not work for you. The best thing to do is to stay busy, and try to keep your mind busy. Time will help as well but there is just a certain amount of mourning that needs to be done, and sometimes there is always a feeling of sadness there when you think of them. Good luck.
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