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writes: Hi, how do you forget the person you've liked for so many years (4 years) and havent told the, and that person don't have a clue at all of how you feel. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni don't have any communication with this person except i see him on the way to secondary school.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut however some adise is not bad. thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionanother thing i don't wana meet anyone. i rather just chill and be with my family and study and have a normal life without guys so i dont need advice on how to get another guy or that same guy cause i don't want him. Also i've known how it feels to like someone and not have them, so i don't need to know it'll go away soon. I also don't wana flirt with anyone i rather help my mum at home or do my homework i don't have time to waste with boys. Life don't be that long for some people.it can go quick in a tick.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionanother thing i don't wana meet anyone. i rather just chill and be with my family and study and have a normal life without guys so i dont need advice on how to get another guy or that same guy cause i don't want him. Also i've known how it feels to like someone and not have them, so i don't need to know it'll go away soon. I also don't wana flirt with anyone i rather help my mum at home or do my homework i don't have time to waste with boys. Life don't be that long for some people.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionanother thing i don't wana meet anyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok thanks for the advice but you lot make it seem like i'm small i'm 14 infact its says wrong i'm in year 9 born in 1993. And don't think i went after this boy i never had time to and am actually trying to forget him totaly and before any one says keep revising and make sure your studying blaaa.... i infact do so i don't need people calling me a winning little girl which infact i aint. I asked a siple question i never asked for your opinion on anything else, so please just answer the question.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2007): The best to do to forget is to forget whatever good things you were doing with that person. You can also find a good partner who will keep you busy with good things. You should also stop any communication with that person.
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reader, Trendchap +, writes (11 November 2007):
Hi ,
Iam 27 yrs old,has a very good frnd , i went in her life when she was in a bad phase of a relation (she broke), now i love her but she doenst.. i fight a lot with her for not givng importance to me . iam sensitive guy, she doesnt like sentisitive guy...
i kissed her without her permission and she told she doesnt have any feeling and to look for other girls iam not the right girl........
i very much need her , i dont want to loose her. parallel if i continue as a frnd, i will be pschyc if i see any change in her behavior towards me. which i cant tolerate.
Kindly advise
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (11 November 2007):
I would not worry too much. Especially at your age the hurt will go away in a reasonably short time.
Right now it may feel like you can't go on, but trust me, it will start to get better in a few days or so. Doc
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reader, CantHelpFallin +, writes (11 November 2007):
Go out and meet new people, make some new friends, and chances are, you will meet a GREAT guy that will get your mind off of the 4-year crush. Take up a hobby of some sort involving something you really enjoy, such as music, photography, painting, scrapbooking, etc. Take a day with your 'girls' and just have fun. Flirt with some new guys just enough to get there attention but not too much to drive them away. It will take a while, but you can and you will get over him if you find OTHER things to preoccupy you and fill your mind other than him. Hope this helps :)
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