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male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:So I'm an 18 year old senior in high school(male). I'm kinda shy most of the time when I first meet people, but once I have talked to them or they have talked to me I start to feel comfortable. Still though, it takes me a couple of days to really get comfortable and when I am I'm pretty funny at least I think so people laugh most of the time. My problem is that saying I'm not good with girls is an under statement. Anytime I build up the confidence to talk to a girl it goes away quickly and I panic and back out. When I'm by myself I think of lines I can say. Most of them start with "Excuse me I don't mean to bother you but" and thats it my mind draws a blank. There is this one girl in my spanish class who's a sophmore or junior who's cute and sits in the desk next to me. I'd really like to start getting to know her, I just don't know where to start. Csn someone please help any advice would be appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2015): You need to have confidence in yourself. Easier said then done, I know. Once you learn that rejection is far the end of the world talking to a girl becomes a whole lot easier. Be yourself and if she's interested, great! If not, so what? If you can take that to heart you can talk to any girl no matter who they are.
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