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How to ask my boyfriend to be more physical with me?

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Question - (2 April 2013) 1 Answers - (Newest, 2 April 2013)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

How to ask my boyfriend to be more physical with me...?

Well we're only 17 and we have only been together for 3 weeks but I like being physical. He's a virgin and he's never had a girlfriend before, but I want him to like hug me tightly, kiss with tounges; kiss my neck, give me love bites, nibble my ear, hold me from behind, bite my lip, kiss me with food/drink, suck and play with my boobs. I do very similar to these things but he always tells me to slow down and doesn't seem confident enough to do it with me. But I think he likes it, he's just shy.

How can I let him know what I want without seeming pushy?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (2 April 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntyou can't force him to be physical if he's not ready.

you are pushing him too fast and that's not fair.

he's not shy or not confident, he's NOT READY.

Gawd if you were a boy doing this to a girl folks would be down your throat. Well guess what it's the same thing.

YOU have to go on HIS time table and not force him

Have patience and if you can't, then do him a favor and walk away.

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