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writes:I work with this guy who is very attractive but married. I'm married also and have never cheated on my spouse. My co-worker is 59 years old and I'm 25 years old. I can't help the attraction and have never responded to his seductive offers. Here is the problem, he asked me to call him and I told him I would. Deep inside, I knew I wasn't gonna call him and I never did. Now when he see's me, he ignores me. He says irritating comments to me and I actually seen him roll his eyes at me. I know I shouldn't be worried but I don't want him to be mad at me. I still wanna remain friends without an affair. It's like since he didn't get what he wanted, he ignores me. How should I respond to his negative behavior? Why the attitude? He is very popular at my job and women throw themselves at him. Everybody wants him! I just wanna be his friend even though I am flatter by the attention I get from him. I figure it wouldn't matter if I didn't want him cause he can get any women he wants.
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reader, Teacake +, writes (3 December 2008):
 He sounds like a major game player womanizer. Thank goodness you didn't fall for his crap. Why would you want to stay his friend if he is such a manipulative asshole?
He wasn't able to "work his charms" on you, you didn't take his bait and he's acting like a total shit. Just roll your eyes at him and laugh to yourself. Let him know you don't think much of him. If he is married, he is a double creep. Not a friend worth having.
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reader, katatonik +, writes (3 December 2008):
 "He can get any woman he wants"...except you. You probably hurt his pride, but both of you are married, so your desire to do the right thing is very commendable and completely outweighs any hurt pride he may have. Ignore him.
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