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female
age
22-25,
anonymous
writes:Hi... So I have had a crush on this guy , V, at school for almost a year. He's always been giving me mixed signals. One day he'll blush seeing me , the other day he will ignore me . I've often seen his friends teasing him when I'm around in the school campus. Now putting this on side, the other side of the story is....I just shifted my house so I recently changed my bus. In that new school bus, there is a guy S. now this guy is the crush of one of my close friend N . When I told N that S is in my bus, she confirmed it from S (they are friends because two years back they were in the same class ) then the next day, S asked me in bus that do you know N , that time I did not know that N had actually asked him to find out if I was in his bus or not. Slowly by slowly me and S became good friends. Then I came to know, from S that N and him were in a hidden relationship for 20-25 days but they broke because S complained that N was too shy and all. Me and S also exchanged numbers. After a month or so, S told me that he wanted to know what N felt and see her real feelings by making her jealous and so, unknowingly to me ,he started talking extra nicely to me, flirting with me, and I thought I was all friendly....until N told me that she does not trust me anymore and that she thinks I'm going out with S . Meanwhile S told me that he thinks that N is lame,boring and shy and his relationship with n was a joke. N got to know this and they had a fight.Things got even more heated up when one day, when I was on conference call with my BFF,R and S. S did not know R was on conference and so R started playing romantic songs in the background ....S thought it was me playing ....then I convinced him it was not me but still the songs continued (it was R) and suddenly, S said in a very serious and caring tone "I Love You" and "my name" later on he claimed that he was kidding but after that all my friends think we both are in love. Even when we randomly sing songs in my bus , on the romantic tracks he looks right into my eyes, he calls me everyday. N does not know that S said that I love you but if she finds out...... Also, things are improving between N and S , S told me that he actually liked a girl only once and that girl is N . But he says he does not like her anymore. When my BFF, R asked him if he likes me, he was like " ummm....no....I don't" even I just like hima s a friend but I am getting a bit uncomfortable and sad with all the friendliness between N and S again......Since the start I wanted to get them back together but now I don't know why I'm getting sad and depressed at the thought of them together. Also, S does not know I like V but I think he suspects it. But S is also really confusing ,somedays he's trying to make me see how good me n V are for one another and somedays he is saying that V is not good in this, not good in that, I don't know who I really like and who likes me!! PLEASE HELP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2017): Why don't you just be friends with all of the above and let things happen on their own. You are very young just like Denizen says; but you're confused because you're playing too many violins at the same time.
Be a good friend to everyone; then if it is meant for you and V to be together, maybe that will happen. If you are friends with everyone, it's win-win for all of you! Don't be jealous of N and S, he was honest about who he likes the most.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (2 April 2017):
 You are still too young to know your own mind. Wait and your feelings will become clearer. Don't be depressed. Enjoy being with your friends. Don't rush to be too serious. There is time enough for that.
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