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writes:Hey, I have just turned 17 and the guy is 32 and has a gf.backgroundI have started to fancy this guy that drinks in the pub that I work at. It all started when we were talking one night and he asked for my number, I gave it to him thinking that we were mates (I have known this person for a year and a half now).We were texting one night and he told be that he fancied me, I said that I did not like him like that, a month later I told him that I really liked him and I could not get him out of my head. I heard nothing back from that text.3 weeks ago we were outside talking and he asked if I would kiss him, I said no but I wish that I said yes now. I really care what people at my work will think of me. I know that he has a gf and if we do anything people can't know.questions1. Should I have said yes to kissing him?2. How old is to old.?3. Do you think I just like the idea of someone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionim starting to get anoyed he says that were just mates but then he says that he misses me.
what does he want friends or more help!!
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (8 November 2008):
 1. You were right not to kiss him
2. As long as its two consenting adults i believe any age is ok, it up to the people to decide
3. Alot of people like the idea of someone, as humans we are really not meant to be alone. Some can be but we need contact friendly and romantic. So prehaps yea you like the idea of someone
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reader, Gemini1506 +, writes (7 November 2008):
1. You did the right thing in saying no
2. Personally too old is when they are the same age or older than your parents
3. It's possible that you just like the fact an older guy wants you. whatever you may feel for him it will pass. If it was meant to be he would dump his gf. If he really cared about you, he wouldn't want to get with you until he was single again.
DON'T settle for being someone's bit on the side
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