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anonymous
writes:How long should I keep talking to a guy online without him having asked for a picture or to meet up before I know I am wasting my time? He's nice and all, but I just want to know how long I should hold out without him asking to meet or even for a picture before I know that he would only ever think of my as an online buddy.We've been chatting for almost a month. I didn't meet him on a dating site, I messaged him on myspace and then he added me to yahoo messenger.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2007): original girl here:its just really hard for me to tell though. he gives really mixed signals. sometimes he is really flirty and teases me a lot and other times he talks to me more like a friend.any more adivce?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2007): Have you thought about asking him to meet up or sending a picture on your own?
As a guy the popular message to me when it comes to meeting someone online is "ONLY PEDOPHILES AND RAPISTS ASK TO MEET IN REAL LIFE WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU?!?!?!?" It could be that he has been bombarded with the same message and is waiting for you to make the first move.
If you like him then take the initiative.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2007): If you didn't meet on a dating site where did you get the idea he likes to meet up with his online friends? Maybe he prefers to keep his online life separate from his real life and he just wants to be online friends?
He probably hasn't asked for a picture of you because he likes talking to you for you and doesn't care what you look like.
If you really want to know if he'll ever want to meet up with you then ask him. But I wouldn't be surprised if he says he just wants to be online friends.
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