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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Me and my boyfriend have been on a break for aboout 3 months now. We still chill. And we still kiss. We don't talk on the phone so much. I love him sooo much. He says that he's not sure if he's in love with me. But he gets mad every time a guy tries to kick it to me. We decided not to talk to other people. He still cares for me. How long does a break last? Do you think im wasting my time waiting for him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): I agree with Kay Kay. You need to move on for awhile... make him miss you. Don't "chill" with him. He'll eventually miss hanging out with you and realize that what you're offering him is better than what he has now.
I'm sort of going through the same thing with you, except that it's mutual. However, I still have strong feelings for the boy. It's hard, trust me. But if you surround yourself with your friends and anything that doesn't remind you of him (when you guys are together), then you'll be fine.
Stay strong. He'll come back... they always do when they realize what they did was STUPID.
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