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How is it meant to feel when you are in the early stages of a relationship with someone?

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Question - (14 March 2013) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 March 2013)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi,

Im would like to hear how poeple felt in the early stages of a relationship with someone that lasted a while or long term.

Me and my friend know each other years and i know he always had feelings for me, i didnt look at him like that til we had a drunken kiss. since then we txt every day and have met up a few times. Its been a real slow burner the last couple of months which is grand as i can feel us getting closer slowly.

My feelings for him are that we get on great (from yrs of being friends first) , have great chemistry, i really like him and wanna sleep with and kiss him and i get butterflies when i think of him and would love to be with him all day every day......am i missing something here though??? I know he is mad about me also.

Im not sure if its a case of being treated like crap by all previous men and im not used to not feeling anxious or worrying if they like me or if i will ever hear from them again.

is this the way it is supposed to feel when it is right? or am ijust too used to fellas that mess me around that i dont recognise a decent thing when i have it...

If people could tell me how they felt with new partners that lasted that would help me.

Thanks

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A male reader, Glacier Belgium +, writes (14 March 2013):

It's very positive he has had feelings for you for years assuming that is really the case.

You go for it girl just don't overdo it. Don't forget to take time for other things.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2013):

as the guy said, its not the early stage, i knew my boyfriend for about one year before we dated and when we started to go out he grew so close so fast because we already knew so much about each other. And we are going to get married so just relax and enjoy it, your deserve it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2013):

I think the thing is that you're not in an early stage. You've known each other for so long there is no guessing as to what he's going to do. He knows you and you know him. It's just that you guys started dating so you think it's the early stage but it really isn't.

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