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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've known this guy for a while but not really so well that we talk to each other all the time. We say the occasional "how are you?" and such but I don't really know anything about him. But, we're continuously thrown into the same environment, it's just that we still go our separate ways. I'd really like to get to know him better though. He's managed to get me talking, which is surprising since I don't talk that much and unfortunately I feel as if I say more idiotic things than anything else, but I haven't gotten him to talk much at all. Are my questions too open-ended? Too narrow? How does one get a guy to talk? I see him get into conversations with other girls but with me it's a lot of nodding and such. What is going on? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (5 December 2008):
Ask him about stuff, ask him what he's been upto and what his views are on the news or stuff on TV or music or anything.
Questions are fun.
Good Luck!! xx
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