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writes:I have a friend that is involved with a man she suspects may be using drugs.What is making it so hard for her to actually tell is that they don't live together but told her there are other ways of telling inspite of that.Foe instance I told her that all his mysterious diapearing acts for extended periods of time with no reasonable explanation,asking for money from time to time and promising to pay it back and never does etc..Now she wants to know what would be the best way to ask this man without being accusing if he is using drugs?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2010): Tell her to not be afraid of what might or might not happen. Is she in love with him? That might be why she doesn't want to cut ties. She probably knows she could do better and you should remind her of this. Tell her to be strong and when and if he does show up again to not let him in the house until he has explained himself otherwise she doesn't want to know. I think she is wasting her time on this man to be honest. Hope things work out for the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your answer.
I really believe that my friend knows what she needs to do but might be afraid of what she gets as an answer.
If it were me I would rather know the truth and if after being with somone for an extended period of time and they felt they couldn't be upfront with me then as you said they would have to be cut loose until they did decide to come clean.
Now what she's hung up on if in fact he will show up again.
I told her that he would when he's good and ready and when he feels she isn't so heated about his lastest stunt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010): Maybe its drugs maybe it isnt and is something else.. Tell her to ask him why he is doing disappearing acts and why he is taking her money and not paying her back. I think he is taking her for a fool and shes playing along with it not realising. Tell her to get him to explain or else she will end it
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