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writes: How does a female get looked upon whether she has sex with a guy on the first day, the first month, or even after six months of dating a guy. Is she considered easy if she sleeps with him on the first day? Reply to this Question
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (2 May 2007):
 It is more and more common now for women to sleep with guys when they feel like it, even if it is on a first date however the old adage still applies. If a girl sleeps with a guy on the FIRST date the guy tends to think "hmmmm if she was so easy as to sleep with me on a first date, how many other guys has she slept with?" so yes, I would say any woman who jumps into bed with a guy on the first date is "easy" but that's just my opinon. Any woman who respects herself and has any morals wouldn't do this besides, guys like the chase and if you are "caught" too easily (hence the term "easy") then the challenge for them is over before they have gotten the chance to really get to know you better.
Relationships with others are all about getting to know one another to see if you click. Getting intimate is a very personal and private thing and is the ultimate way of showing the other person how much you care for them, not just a quick release of sexual tension but a way of bonding together to show your partner how much you care for them.
Too many young people today are too quick to jump the gun and have sex too quickly resulting in arguments, name calling and pregnancy. My advice is to get to know the person FIRST, respect and value your body more and don't give it up easily to the first person that shows you any sign of affection. If a man REALLY likes you and wants to get to know you better then he'll respect it if you want to wait a while.
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reader, hiddenspace +, writes (2 May 2007):
 I think sleeping with him on the first date is not the ideal scenario, too many one-night stands have proven that most relationships rarely occur from a one-night stand, even if you didn't have a one-night stand in mind, this is the impression that could be given off.
However, we are all human, and I think that if you feel like you want a one-night stand, or that you will see this guy again (work together etc.) after, then I would go for it.
The first month, and six months after should be fine, as you have established a deeper relationship together.
Hope this helped.
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