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female
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anonymous
writes: She cheated on me three months ago, because she tought I ignored her for a while and she went panic-she regrets it a lot and this almost wracked her, she could not sleep and eat well. For all the love she gave and proved to me, I forgave me and trusted her again. Sometimes after fighting, she complained that I never took care of her like what I did before. I felt I was less motivated to comfort her, how should I change this?
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reader, robinlovescena +, writes (7 May 2006):
You have to keep on trusting her. Without that, she WILL think that. Talk to her about it, and explain your reasoning.
good luck
Robin
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reader, bonym +, writes (6 May 2006):
You have to ask yourself, are you happy knowing that she has previously been unfaithful? It was irresponsible of her to simply cheat on you like that because she thought you were ignoring her, a decent woman would have sat you down and told you how she felt, not just gone out and cheated. My friend, you need to go with your gut feelings and your heart, if you want to continue in the relationship then you have to find it in you to forgive her, if not, you need to end it and move on. Either way, be happy. xXx
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