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writes:where do i give a handjob to my boyfriend? sit or lie down or what?
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reader, Mark25 +, writes (11 September 2008):
 A handjob is not fellatio. Fellatio is oral sex. Stimulating the penis with your mouth. In either case just do what feels right at the time. If you spend time thinking about you'll be really nervous and anxious. When it becomes to being intimate things happen naturally. It's best to let them and don't think about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2008): Dear Poster
Herewith an answer I posted earlier this week. Hope it will be of assistance to you.
Tips for (Fellatio) oral sex on men:
1. Talk to your boyfriend about what he likes.
2. Try it slowly, possibly kiss and lick around his body including his genitals and penis to see how comfortable you feel.
3. Your mouth is not a vagina, so don't try to make it one. This means that you don't have to make it do what your vagina does - it can be uncomfortable to hold your mouth open that wide for any length of time and you don't have to. You can take the penis into your mouth repeatedly - beware of teeth, use tongue and lips.
4. Experiment with licking and sucking all over the penis (and testicles) - ask him for feedback. Variety of movement can help.
5. Use your hand at the same time to increase tempo or firmness around the penis.
6. Make sure you are in a position where you can move away if he feels the urge to thrust as this could make you gag and put you off. Make sure you are both comfortable - you can be kneeling on the floor with him standing,or both on the bed with him lying down; or even on your sides; you can be both heads in same direction, or 'head-to-toe' - this could allow him to stimulate your orally at the same time if you like...
7. Discuss with him in advance what you're going to do when he ejaculates,(if he is not using a condom) you may or may not want it in your mouth.
8. I suggest you do take precautions because there are
diseases that are transmissible via unprotected oral sex; such as: herpes, gonorrhea, syphilis and hepatitis. A low risk also exits for contracting HIV (the virus that causes Aids) during oral sex.
Best wishes and lots of SMILES
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2008): I hope you know that fellatio and handjob are not the same thing...^^;;;
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (10 September 2008):
 depends on the situation. but you can do it sitting or standing or laying down..to be honest its what is comfortable for both partys involved. here is a website that give more detail in what you can do with fellatio... http://www.sexinfo101.com/pm_fellatio.shtml .. good luck aphexy xx
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