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writes:How do you play hard to get, whist still hinting that you like him?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advicee..
Its not that i want to play gamess
but before, when i was just being myself one of my mates said that i was despreate
So, it was kinda a bit off putting.
She was like ''Hard to Get''
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (27 November 2007):
 It is an age-old myth that playing hard to get is a good plan. Honestly it will just mess with your head as you plot and plan. If a boy likes you then he likes you. I am not saying make it real easy for him (...to treat you badly) but attraction is about personality as much as looks. Teenage dating is usually a minefield as boys and girls are hardly experts in how to date (...but then older people usually aren't that great and wise in it either!!!). If he thinks you are a player then he will run for the hills as no nice boy wants to be made a fool of and on the other hand if he likes Miss hard to get, then gets her...his interest will no longer be there and he wouldn't have been worth the effort in the first place. Best to relax and be yourself!
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (27 November 2007):
 First off, why do you want to play hard to get?
Any nice guy who would treat you with respect will be put off by a girl who's playing hard to get. You see , for a nice guy it takes a lot of courage to ask a girl out, if she plays hard to get it makes it difficult to ask her again.
You will get the guy who is mean and cocky about himself chasing after you, then when he "catches" you he can treat you bad.
You should think about this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007): You don't.
Seriously, these girl mind games are ridiculous. Don't be difficult or he probably won't be bothered and forget about you.
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