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30-35,
*implyjuliet
writes:Ok so the basic details are, I'm in a long distance relationship here for 6 months now... long story as to why we live so far apart but it's going soo well... I really have been thinking about sending him a picture of me, not in lingerie, but a little bit of a "sexual" picture like possibily in underwear a tight top.. my only problem is being the biggest anxious wreck that I am I'm too afraid to do it that he may think less of me or that I'm in one way or another degrading myself or lacking self respect and dignity. I don't think anyone who does that is disrespectful, obviously to an extent but I'm just worried. I mean, we've spoken about when we see each other... and lingerie and naughty kind of stuff like that, never actually sent him a picture though. It won't be a ridiculously sexual picture but just a little teasing. Should I be worried? My instincts are telling me it will be fine considering we've spoken about intimacy and such, I just don't want him to think less of me! I have morals... pleeease help guys I bet it's just me being paranoid!!please help, thank you!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009): I think you might want to be careful here.....it doesn't sound like you two have a sexual relationship, and you have a very new relationship and on top of that it is long distance....if you send him a cheesy, supe sexy picture of you, he is going to start to wonder what other guy is on top of you while he is away.....don't be easy, make him work for you.....send him a lovely picture of your face, or a full body picture in a graceful pose with clothes on, he will love that just as much if not more.
Don't listen to these dirty old men who are thinking what they would like from their long term girlfriends or wives if they were away, they are not dating you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009): An older married guy here. I don't think that you have to worry too much given what you have talked about. I'm sure he will love to receive the odd sexy photo. Bikini or bra and panties ought to be fine :-)
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