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How do you give a woman oral sex?

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Question - (16 October 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 October 2007)
A male New Zealand age 30-35, anonymous writes:

How do u give a women oral sex? my girlfriend really wants me to give it to her but i have no idea how!

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A male reader, Brad Oral Sexpert United States +, writes (24 October 2007):

Brad Oral Sexpert agony auntHello and great question...

Female sex organs are a delightful playground of textures and sensitivities. A true cunnilingus superstar will recognize and interact with each part to draw out their partner’s pleasure. Though all vulvas are different, there are some general rules to follow which can demystify these intricate devices.

1.) Begin from the outside and work your way in. – Often, clitorises are more sensitive than penises, despite their similar physiology. Jumping right in by attacking the clitoris directly can be unpleasantly intense for many women. A gentle lead-in comprised of tender attention paid to the insides of the legs (where legs meet vulva), labia majora (the large outer lips) and then labia minora (the soft, sensitive inner lips) will prepare her body for more in a few short minutes.

2.) Go gently until her body tells you she wants more. – Use the tip of your tongue and your lips gently at first. Light kisses and flicks will drive her wild and you can rest assured that your more vigorous ministrations will be more readily accepted once her clitoris has become enlarged.

3.) Use your hands as well as your mouth – Stroke and squeeze her abdomen, her legs and her outer labia as you warm her up. Inserting a finger or two (or three or four, depending on the woman) and gently thrusting or massaging her g-spot can add a dimension that drives some women wild. Other women like their labia to be parted manually or for her partner to use a finger to draw back the clitoral hood while using their mouth more directly.

4.) Enjoy yourself and let her see you enjoying yourself. Appreciative sounds, smiles and glances can go a long way to making a woman feel truly sexy.

Remember, when a woman feels appreciated and sexy, she acts in kind. A woman will almost always find some way to return the favour that is great oral sex. Attentive, appreciative cunnilingus encourages her to feel better about her body and with sharing her body with the person who has done the encouraging.

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (16 October 2007):

flower girl agony auntMy best advice to you is to ask your girlfriend, i'm sure she will love the fact you have not done it before and to be honest different women like it different ways so she will be able to tell you exactly what she wants and how she wants it.

Take care.xx.

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A female reader, JaffaZ Australia +, writes (16 October 2007):

JaffaZ agony auntOral sex for women is different than for men, obviously. Basically what you do is lick her genitals. Try aiming for the clitoris, which is the most sensitive spot and will give her the most pleasure. As well as licking, you may also want to try kissing and sucking (although this may be harder) just for some variation. But I think licking is probably the best way to go, and maybe in a circular kind of motion.

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