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writes:How do you get over a 3 year relationship when your still madly in love with the person? especially when they were your best friend when you were 12 and they are all you ever had.
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reader, HeavensAngel  +, writes (5 September 2010):
 FIRST.... IT TAKES TIME! you may always care for him. You may have periods of time where you don't seem to miss him . Then it all hits you again. It's all part of the progress of matureing, growing up.
I for one think that process lasts a life time. We contienue growing and learning, having feelings. Adults experience the same thing. What you can do, some examples... find new interests , journel.. write any thing you feel, about him, any thing! Try to keep busy during the times you and he was mostly together. Try to be available to help others in their needs. Helping people can make us see that we aren't as bad off as we think at times.
Let your self feel the grief, never hold tears inside. Talk, Talk Talk!! Ond day you will look back on the times you had together and you will feel happy that you had the chance to be with the guy you was with. You will be happy and please be your self. my BLESSINGS!
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reader, kirra07 +, writes (5 September 2010):
You just try to see it as a good thing. You've been with someone for 3 years and it's all you've experienced. But you're young, and there's a whole world of romance and adventure, from flings, to flirting, to serious relationships, to casual dating out there for you to still experience.
I know it hurts to break up after so long, and you won't forget it anytime soon. But it'll fade when you put yourself out there and experience other possibilities. It might not be soon, but eventually you'll be able to look back at the relationship and be happy it happened, but happy it ended because it led you to whatever life or new relationship you're leading.
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