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writes:Just a simple question really...How do you get a very attractive teacher to notice you? i'm finding it very difficult and really wanna get to know this person but i'm a little too shy.Any advice wud be great, thank youu xx
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reader, mh26hm  +, writes (13 June 2007):
 when i was in high school, i had these two teachers and are both females. they were both extremely attractive and pretty. i was usually a quiet student and i worked diligently also attractive as well. i did nothing for them to notice me. they were just so touchy feely towards me. they sure liked me and especially liked to talk to me. i was surprised and shocked! one of them always liked to touch me, get close to me and liked to just look at me, as if they were flirting and tried to capture my attention. and the other always liked my company and liked talking to me. well from my perspective these two teachers that i had might have been either bisexual or lesbian. but i'm not neither of those, i'm straight. from this experience it was a bit awkward but i went along with it. as you can see you do not have to get teachers to notice you, just do your work and they might come to you. if you want to know more talk to me....
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHiyaah! ta for yur advice hun. I suppose i didn't really go into detail with my previous post...so yes, i admit i have really strong feelings for this teacher but although i'm this fond of him i wouldn't want a relationship with him as i kno how wrong it is and would also mean a risk of him losing his career. I love & care for him so much that i couldn't bare to do that to him!
So, basically i jus wanna get to know his inner personality - I know it sounds a bit weird but i NEED some kinda contact with him, seeing him walk past me several times a day, just isn't enough i am desperate for him to notice me and to have a convo with me [i wouldn't come onto him or anything, i just feel that this would help me cope better with my feelings] It would be the closest thing i could get to him. I know this may sound a bit dodgy, but i swear i would hav no intention of the least to flirt with him or anything...all i ask is for him to talk to me occasionally, but gettin him to do that is a different matter - I am quite a shy persun. So if you cud giv me sum tips...
xx Just thought i'd write in again to be a lil more specific xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHiyaah! ta for yur advice hun. I suppose i didn't really go into detail with my previous post...so yes, i admit i have really strong feelings for this teacher but although i'm this fond of him i wouldn't want a relationship with him as i kno how wrong it is and would also mean a risk of him losing his career. I love & care for him so much that i couldn't bare to do that to him!
So, basically i jus wanna get to know his inner personality - I know it sounds a bit weird but i NEED some kinda contact with him, seeing him walk past me several times a day, just isn't enough i am desperate for him to notice me and to have a convo with me [i wouldn't come onto him or anything, i just feel that this would help me cope better with my feelings] It would be the closest thing i could get to him. I know this may sound a bit dodgy, but i swear i would hav no intention of the least to flirt with him or anything...all i ask is for him to talk to me occasionally, but gettin him to do that is a different matter - I am quite a shy persun :S
xx Just thought i'd write in again to be a lil more specific xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007): Heya sweetie.I really don't think i should encourage you to get to know your attractive teacher. I'm sorry honey. He is there to teach you, not to get to know you. He has responsibilities as a teacher too. Your also between the ages of 13 to 15 which means if you were going to get to know this teacher you would have to tread very carefully not to get yourself or him in trouble. I don't really know what your intentions are? You say he's attractive, so are you meaning in your question that you want to get to know him for it to perhaps lead on to a relationship? He could be thought to be a pheadophile as your under 16. And you don't want that do you?By doing this you may be putting his career at risk and your education at that school. I'm sorry I cant give you any positive advice, I feel that if I do it would be unethnical and wrong. xox
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