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writes:I just went through a horrible breaking up and I'm not over her yet Seriously i can't take her out of mind !!!! it's driving me crazy What do i do ?!?! I really need helps Reply to this Article
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009): i can relate to your problem as my boyfriend left me just two months ago. its easy to give advise but difficult to apply or put in practice. the best thing we can do is to pray and God will find a way for us to resolve this issue and we can easily move on. dont stop loving her, but study ot learn how to leave without her.
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reader, Cheerleadercharl  +, writes (6 April 2009):
Well....I am always feelin the same way so the thing i do is either take it out on something like a pillow or talk to the person you like and tell them that i am still not over them and see what they say and sometimes i talk to my mates.
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reader, bOy CrAzY;}  +, writes (31 March 2009):
Honestly man I'm sorry to say but u can never get truely get over someone u might forget about how much u like them but there always there in the back of ur mind:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2009): do you think it would be easier to get over her if the break up had not been "horrible"? so many mean things, that probably aren't even true get said...by both parties. you should call her and try to fix how it ended. have lunch, and just say, you didn't mean the things you said, even if you still want to be apart. when things end in a good way, there isn't so much angst, negative talk going on in your head, re-thinking every little thing.
if you want to hook back up, then, send her a card - tell her you regret the things that happened and were said, and ask her, in the kindest way possible, if y'all could try and work things out. i'm kinda going through this, too, even though it wasn't serious, it was just a casual sex thing (I'm older, divorced, grown kid - but i still wanna get laid regularly)...we ended it, but he was younger, and good looking and, well, long endurance. i felt like i was addicted to him, but it's starting to get better, and i've met someone new, but still think about him. good luck to you, sweetie, and i hope it all ends in a way that gives you peace in your heart and mind.
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reader, rocker +, writes (13 March 2009):
All i can say is just give her some time and if she really likes you you might be able to get back together but before that spend time with other people and tell people who are really close what you are going through and they might be able to help you. Do things that you really like to to try to get your mind off of it.
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reader, teresabrown  +, writes (11 March 2009):
Hi want you should do is take it slow throught out any picture's of her then don't do anything that reminds you of her dont try callin g because she wont talk to you and that all the advices i can give for now
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reader, Hasden +, writes (11 March 2009):
Hasden is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you everyone !!At least people here know how my feelings are
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reader, pinkjane_86 +, writes (10 March 2009):
 Nothing can help u get over a break up easily hun, the best thing you can do if she loves and cares for you she might just need space Give her that space, its very hard trust me i have been there . crying constantly cant stop thinking about that person but if its meant too be hun its meant too be. The best thing you can do is spend time with ur friends , family,they are so important right now. keep yourself busy. i have my fingers crossed for you hun good luck x
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reader, marisol +, writes (9 March 2009):
stay her friend you can still care for her just not in a boyfriend kind of way care for her as a friend and mamybe just maybe she will see how much you care for her and you will get back togather again good luck
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