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writes:Until recently, I didn't understand why people have 'on and off' relationships. I always figured that if one person ended it, then that was that and the other person accepted it. What happened with this one was that I tried to end it 4 months into the relationship, and a year later I'm still in it! Talk about irony... haha. Every time I break up I do mean it, but somehow he convinces me that relationships are hard (which they are) and that he really cares for me (which I think he does) and he knows that I care for him too (which I do.) Also, if anyone's been in one of these relationships you probably know how I feel when I say that we 'get' each other. Only it's hard to actually be together. I just generally don't trust him, even though it seems as though he has changed. So, any advice for a smooth break up without caving in? Reply to this Question
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reader, turk182 +, writes (25 July 2010):
 if he has betrayed your trust by cheating on you already then end it by ignoring him completly after you crush him by ending it you can then go on to drive him crazy when you dont respond at all to him. Ill tell you this, I jUst lost my fiance and my life now seems alot more emptier. remember, The same thing that makes you laugh. will make you cry.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (25 July 2010):
 Put all his stuff on the lawn and change the locks. Tell him it's over and not to come back then block all forms of communication from him.
Good luck you simply need to be determined that this is the end no more!
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