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How do we know when enough is enough?

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Question - (10 March 2009) 8 Answers - (Newest, 11 March 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, *abyboo4 writes:

if two people are in love but cant seem to get they're shit together how do they know enough is enough?

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A female reader, nadeen United States +, writes (11 March 2009):

nadeen agony auntbecause people dont want to change! they only want to change the other person without having to change themselves!

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A male reader, artian United Kingdom +, writes (10 March 2009):

artian agony auntIf you love each other and mutually do not want to split why not go and see a relationship counselor?

By doing that you can both get your feelings out in a controlled environment with a trained professional and get to the bottom of the situation.

Good luck,

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A male reader, artian United Kingdom +, writes (10 March 2009):

artian agony auntIf you love each other and don't want to spit as long as that is mutual why not go see a relationship counselor?

get your feelings out properly in an environment that you cant really have a full blown argument and get to the bottom of it.

good luck.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (10 March 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntI think you know the answer, get on with it, it will only get worse!

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A female reader, babyboo4 United States +, writes (10 March 2009):

babyboo4 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

i love this person so much we've been together for almost 4 yeears have a son... it just seem we're getting tired or aggraved wit each other but we dont want to leave each other... so thats why i ask the question!

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A female reader, babyboo4 United States +, writes (10 March 2009):

babyboo4 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

i love this person so much we've been together for almost 4 yeears have a son... it just seem we're getting tired or aggraved wit each other but we dont want to leave each other... so thats why i ask the question!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2009):

When you question if you really love the other person.

Or when you get screwed over the 501th time. That last one ALWAYS makes a difference compared to the 500 others.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (10 March 2009):

A good clue is that they come on the internet and ask vague questions like this one.

You know when you've had enough. Tell him if it's not sorted by Friday then you are off.

Good Luck!! xx

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