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*emmie
writes:Can you help? I fancy my aunts boyfriend and I know the feeling is mutual. Hes always eyeing me up, particualrly as I have very big boobs and she does not. I believe if you've got it then flaunt it and I get lots of attention from men. Me and my friends know she's jealous of me. I don't think he really likes her as he has a reputation for being a ladies man. He's good looking and I'm not sure what he sees in her. I expected him to go for someone more glamourous than her. When we go out a lot of men seem to like her, - I'm not sure why! She looks ok but doesn't wear the clothes I do. I've been out with this guys friends who really fancy me and we've had sex. However, I really prefer to be with him and I know he wants to be with me as he has said that he wants to come round to my house. How do we go about being together?
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reader, gemmie +, writes (27 October 2007):
gemmie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAlthough I don't like the answers to my query I guess i'd better listen. Its still difficult as my feelings for him are still there. I suppose I do feel a bit jealous of my aunt as I know he's always eyeing up my boobs and smiling. Some of the advice was hurtful but maybe I need to listen. Other family members have noticed the tension betwen me and my aunt and asked me we don't go out as often anymore. My sister said her husband feels I just like trouble as when this hits off between me and my aunt it will really blow.
I rang and spoke to my aunt on the phone the other day. She turned down my offer of going on holiday with one of the guys I was seeing- said she doesn't want to get in the way as he didn't invite her as ther'll be only 3 of us.. I told her its not like that anymore as he's now always busy with his business. She told me before that I was becoming abit like 'pass the parcel' between these guys which wasn't good for me. My sister agrees and siad I really need to think about what I'm doing as it will all really end bad.
Maybe if they break up properly, then it won't be that bad if we start seeing each other as I wouldn't tell her that I was seeing him.
I;ll just have to wait until then. Thanks again everyone. .
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reader, gemmie +, writes (21 October 2007):
gemmie is verified as being by the original poster of the question
Sorry, I posted this in the wrong section yesterday.
I'm not 'bitching' about my aunt, but I know her boyfriend fancies me. Why would he keep looking at me and ask to visit me at home 'without her'???
I know we're meant to be together as I recently had our birth charts done and this clearly states we are very compatiable, but he's compataible not with my aunt!!
I can't help my feelings. I believing in living my life to the full and going after what you want. I know we're family and this may cause problems but I need to be happy ..and with him I'm sure I can be. His friends have other girls that they see so I don't think they'll mind me now being with him.
I know my aunt and him have been arging over me as she senses somethings going on. I've sent him several email messages but he hasn't replied. Im not sure what to do. I admit to feeling aboy jealous of my aunt as she has what I know should be mine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007): You're going to end up a very lonely old lady . . .
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reader, gemmie +, writes (20 October 2007):
gemmie is verified as being by the original poster of the question I'm not 'bitching' about my aunt, but I know her boyfriend fancies me. Why would he keep looking at me and ask to visit me at home 'without her'???
I know we're meant to be together as I recently had our birth charts done and this clearly states we are very compatiable, but he's compataible not with my aunt!!
I can't help my feelings. I believing in living my life to the full and going after what you want. I know we're family and this may cause problems but I need to be happy ..and with him I'm sure I can be. His friends have other girls that they see so I don't think they'll mind me now being with him.
I know my aunt and him have been arging over me as she senses somethings going on. I've sent him several email messages but he hasn't replied. Im not sure what to do. I admit to feeling aboy jealous of my aunt as she has what I know should be mine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007): to be honest i thnk you sound selfish and really childish. you sound like a little 14/14 year old, you are in yur 40's you need to act like your 40 instead of 14. get off someone elses man and find your own. put yourself away and have a bit of respect for other people. one day people will realise what people like you are. get a grip woman. no one will respect someone that doesnt respect theyre self. no one wants you for sex alone. im 15 and i aren't as pathetic as this!!
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (14 October 2007):
 First off, I agree with all the others. You are completely lacking in maturity and self worth. You say you've slept with your aunt's bf's friends? Do you think any of these men respect you for you? Your aunt is not envious of you, she is most likely feeling sorry for you. If her boyfriend makes a move on you shame on you both. The one I feel for is auntee. Most likely though, she has enough self worth to take a hike should you succeed in being with her man. Should you "be with her man" it will only be a one night stand. I don't know how that will make you feel.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007): Im sorry but you are 41-50? by the sounds of your letter it seems like you are stuck in your teenage years! All you have done in your post is bitch about your aunt, when its you with the problem, not her. Just because you flaunt your body and men look at you, does not mean they fancy you. How do you know shes jelous of you? she probably just thinks you need to get a life and personality, like her, which is probably why this man and others fancy her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007): I don't believe you are for real. If you really are in your 40's, then there's no hope for you! I honestly thought this letter was written by a 13 year old. You are deluding yourself if you think this man is interested in you. Why would he be? It takes more than big boobs to capture a man's interest. Sure, he may sleep with you if you offer it, but be with you?? He'll want a real woman, a grown up woman, someone he can relate to and talk to as well as sleep with, someone reliable and trustworthy, which is clearly not you. Sorry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007): Most men would eye you up if you kept on flashing your tits at them often enough, but if you think they'll judge your personality on them and them alone, you'll be very much mistaken and sadly disappointed. It's what's inside a person that matters, not how much is on show.
He probably sees you as little more than a common tart. It's not the size of your tits that matters - it's the size of your brain, and by the sound of it that hasn't fully developed yet.
A lot of men like your aunt because she has personality, whereas I doubt you have one.
Get a life of your own and stop trying to disrupt others' lives or you'll end up a very sad old woman.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (14 October 2007):
 I think maybe you need to take time to re-read what you have written here and if you don't see what i have just seen then maybe there is no advice worth giving to you.
This man is your aunts boyfriend.....
He has a reputation for being a ladies man.....
Maybe lots of men like your aunt because she is not as full of herself as you are all you have done in this post is rave on about how he should not be with your aunt but he should be with you.
Well if you treat your family like this, your friends want to really watch out.
Take care.xx.
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