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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey there.So me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 9 months now. I have been with 13 guys sexually before him (i know its a lot) and only one of them ever gave me an orgasm.I like having sex with my boyfriend but a lot of the time i just cant be bother. i am attracted to him, a lot. he is gorgeous and i get horny a lot, but its always at the wrong time. i get horny when his parents are home (moving out in december) or when we have to go out in like 15mins. i also have 3jobs and i am always tired at night time because of working all day - i want to get back in to having sex frequesntly as we used to do it at least once a day! Also i am not sure whether i have orgasmed whilst having sex with him. several times i have felt amazing during sex - like i am builing up to it - for example when i am on top and i rock back and forth on his penis it feels great - however whenever i feel like i am getting close it just goes away. is there anything i can do to improve my sex life? how do i make myself get horny, and how do i reach orgasm faster? Any suggestions would be amazing. thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2011): If you and you BF don't try to race toward orgasm and instead do frequent slow sex with no orgasm, called 'karezza', then things might sensitise downstairs and it will be easier to reach orgasm when you have conventional sex. reuniting.info.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (6 June 2011):
 The vast majority of women can't reach orgasm through sex alone. If you want to orgasm through sex, the next time you feel yourself getting close either have him use his fingers or you use your own fingers to push yourself over the edge. You on top is a good one for this.
As for having sex more often, some very busy people schedule sex to make sure it's fit in enough. Also you don't have to wait until you're turned on to initiate, you can try to get yourself turned on during other times either by starting things on your own and inviting him to join or by kissing/touching him, or by just fantasizing about him.
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