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male
age
41-50,
*tupid once
writes:I made the biggest mistake of my life at the beginning of this year.I was unfaithful to my wife of 4 years, we have been together for 8 and have a beautiful daughter.I hurt her in a way that i vowed to never do again and i havent.It took a long time for her to move forward to forgiving my dumb ass.Its 7 months later and everything was progressing well she was planning to move back in and put her wedding ring back on next month when bam. There was this mutual accquantance of ours that found it amuseing i guess to send a text to my phone saying how i make her all hot and horny and she wants to have sex with me.I have never done anything with this woman, i said i wont put my wonderful wife through that pain again and i mean it. My wife believes that i have done something with this woman and wants a divorce.She says she still loves me with all of her heart but dont believe me when i tell her nothing is going on. I love my wife and daughter more than anything in this world and this is tearing me apart. I know i made the biggest mistake a person could, but we were doing so good at working through it.I really hate this woman for doing this to us when we have tried so hard to mend my wifes poor heart. I dont know what to do i cant make my wife believe me.Please help i cant handle being without my family.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2010): sometimes all it takes is once. no second chances. was your infidelity worth the pain and turmoil your life is in now? definately not!
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reader, HollieMc +, writes (24 July 2010):
 If your wife says she still loves you with all of her heart I doubt she really intends on leaving you. She may say it, but it will hurt her just as badly to leave you.
Unless that lady is truly out to get you, you should tell your wife to call her and ask if there is anything between you two. Perhaps tell her to tell your wife even.
Tell your wife She is all you want, and you were so eager for things to go back to normal you would never dream of doing anything to hurt her., again.
And you have no idea why the lady would be messing with your relationship.
I wish you luck, . I have been in this situation, and like you said, the recovery time is extensive, so i feel your pain. Good Luck! :) Don't give up.
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