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How do I win him back?

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Question - (6 August 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 August 2009)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I dated my ex-boyfriend for a year. He proposed after I pressured him to move to the next level. I don't think he was ready and I felt betrayed by the "false" proposal. Things got tense and headed south.

A month later we were broken up. We tried getting back together, but too quickly, and couldn't get past where we were.

Now we're officially broken up and he's telling me he knows in his heart we're better off separate than together.

My question - any suggestions on how to get him back? Shower him with attention? Leave him completely alone? Try to be his friend and see if things re-spark?

Please don't tell me to move on. I know I should but I also know I want to give this all I've got before I do so.

So, any suggestions on how to win him back? Has it been successful for any of you out there? what did you do?

please help.....

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2009):

This is hard on you but you need to realise that its over.

More-over in time you need to ask yourself why did you force the issue if you werent going to deal with the answer not being yes. Were you trying to break ye up?

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