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30-35,
anonymous
writes:so I’m having a problem with my relationship I’ve been with my boyfriend for 10 months he’s perfect well sometimes... I’m very jealous and controlling I honestly want to stop being that way.. I don’t know to tho the reason I’m so jealous is because a long time ago he left me to go with a girl that went to the same school as me they went out for three days yet I still took him back till this day I feel hurt he’s also lied to me saying he was home but he was really out with his friends. he’s always talking about his ex that he went out with for 6 years and sometimes I wonder does he still love her? when we argue he treats me bad he calls me names and makes me feel low. I feel like I deserve better. I give up so much for him and any little money I have I spend it with him. I feel hurt all the time I don’t know why just thinking about it. he always says I’m being dramatic.. I don’t know what to do I wanna leave him but I’m scared to loose him because I love him too much. ever since I got him I dont have any friends he gets jealous cause he think I’m gonna cheat on him I dont go out I’m always home I feel like I’m in prison.. I honestly dont know what to do anymore I’m always thiniking he’s up to things and it drives me nuts. how do I try to trust him? and stop being so controlling and jealous? and give him his space? please help me!!!!!!! :'(
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reader, Red591 +, writes (19 September 2011):
 He is obviously not worried about ir feelings if he tries to make u feel low . Him constantly talking about his ex is disrespectful as at this point why do u still need to hear about her? He doesn't seem to respect u and appears to treat u like a doormat. I know it seems like the hardest thing to do but if u break it off and end it, it will give u power and free u from this "prison". If u use the term prison to describe ur relationship then it's not a healthy relationship so get out
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