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writes: I've been going out with a guy for a few weeks, we are 16 and we have kissed properly twice, both times it was really awkward because he was nervous and was all slobbery. Wot should i do because i dont want 2 say anything as he is shy and it'll knock his confidence even more. Other than this we get on really well. Any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2006): Guys can be really sensitive about stuff like this - the male ego is a fragile thing. My advice would be not to say anything about it unless you absolutely have to. Before you do that, try changing the way he kisses - training him up a little. I've had the same problem before, and the way I fixed things was by kissing strategically. Do more short kisses, with your lips only barely parted - that way, he can't get too slobbery. Try kissing him with some sweet, soft kisses and then amping it up from there. But the minute he opens his mouth too wide or starts getting slobbery, pull back just a little bit - move to kissing his cheek, or his neck - or else just close your mouth a little more, so that he can't be so slobbery. It's easiest to implement this if you're sitting or standing - if you're lying down, it can be hard to create the distance you want, especially if he's lying on top of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2006): ++I agree with most of what martini says and he will know the bit i dont agree with ????++
Erm... [blush] I do. [lowers my head and walks away]
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (7 March 2006):
 I agree with most of what martini says and he will know the bit i dont agree with ????
This is a problem that hopefully will get better with practice but to be honest, I really liked this dead fit guy once but once he kissed me it really put me off him as I needed wellington boots due to all the slobber.
Be gentle and just practice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2006): My gf told me about half a year ago that when we kiss, mine are quite wet. I made an effort of not doing it again, or as much.
You say he is shy. Hmm... You can tell him how to kiss, rather than how bad he kisses. Just like in sex, though erm, I mean, when you're older... (question mark above my head) telling your partner how to make love to you is the same thing pretty much.
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