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writes: My girlfriend is 15 and i am 17 she is almost four months pregnnt how do i tell my parents she is pregnant. i would have already told them but my dad has a bad anger problem. her parents know and so does everyone else its just my dad that dont. please help Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2010): maybe you could tell your mum/stepmum first and she could help you tell him. when i got pregnant i got my mum to tell my dad as he's got the same anger problem!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2010): Go to your father and be like " father I'm a dumb ass, and didn't wear a condom and now my 15 year old girlfriend is pregnant.. I'm going to do the right thing, and drop out of school and go and work at a low paying job, and work paycheck to paycheck to take care of my girlfriend and our unborn baby." Try to rap it up next time. Just a heads up. 30 % of people that have a baby, will have another baby within the year. So be care full for now on.
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reader, Sincerely Kir +, writes (2 September 2010):
you're going to have to let tell, reguardless.you need to be there for her, and to do soyoure ganna have to tell your father. he may have an anger problem, but whats worse, taking one for your baby and your girlfriend, or hiding it until it eats away at you on the inside.? better sooner than later. i advise you sit down with him and tell him that you need his support. he may get upset at first but he needs to realize that gettin overly mad wont change the fact that your girfriend is pregnant. tell him, and take one step at a time.good luck, (:and congrats.!
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reader, Big Phil +, writes (2 September 2010):
You need to talk to your dad man to man. What i mean by this is let him know that he needs to stay calm and listen to what you have to say. Look him in the eye and tell him your girlfriend is pregnant and you will take responsibility for what you have done. Being mature with him should help the situation, I would hope. Hope I helped.
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