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writes: hey so i broke up with my ex 1 month ago and i have just found out i am pregnant i am really happy about it and i have told my ex but my problem is i now have a new partner that i have been with for 3 weeks and i dont know how to tell him. i really like him and dont want to ruin it but on the other hand if i dont tell him it will make it worse as it cant be his as we have never had sex. i quess my question is should i tell him and if so how do i tell him thanx x x
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reader, unappeciatied +, writes (9 April 2010):
Telling him is up to you. Just don't lie about it if it comes up. if you really like him give him the news. On the other hand, you can just break it off slowly, and he will never really have to know why. if he is a desent guy and you tell him, he would still respect you, but that doesn't mean he wants to help you with your kid.
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reader, Pinkflowers +, writes (9 April 2010):
I don't think you should have rushed into another relationship so soon. But good on you for not sleeping with him yet. Of course you have to tell him. Best thing to do is sit him down in a quiet place and tell him. If he cares about you, then he'll accept it, if he is a jerk he'll run for the hills. But it is a risk you have no choice but to take unless of course you break it off with him. But he is going to find out no matter what happends. Also the sooner you tell him the better.
Other wise congratulations and good luck with the baby.
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