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writes:hi, well i have lost my virginity back in april just gone and have only ever had sex twice with my boyfriend at that time, he never made me orgasm through sexual intercourse but i had slight orgasm when he rubbed my clit and gafve me oral sex....i know i can experience full orgasms as i use the corner of the bed, and i get really big orgasms from that, i now have a new bf and he doesnt know that i have never ever experienced an orgasm through sexual intercourse...should i tell him??Even though i know how to reach an orgasm through pleasing myslef with the corner of my bed, i dont know how to show him through sexual intercourse, not even using my fingers works....what should i do??
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (6 June 2008):
 just tell him what you like and dont like, also trying different position helps. but you need to guide him or he wont know.. aphex
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i just put my flaps around the corner of the bed and press up against it while rubbin up n dwn....lol....sounds weird i no but it gives me pleasure...i can also orgasm using different settings on the shower head.....lol.....and thank you everyone for your advice.....but still unsure whether to tell him or not....??.....xx......but i will just try different positions with him....even though it will be awkard since ive only had sex twice.....xx
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (5 June 2008):
hrm ide suggest buying a proper toy as its more safer and use wipes to make it cleaner so you dont get any nasty infections.. and on the whole bf thing you need to tell him what you like and dont like or their is no point..so im pretty sure you know what feels good and what doesnt so when he does something that is good tell him or he wont figure it out remember he has a different mechanics to you..also if say you bought a vibrator u may even find it easier to tell him what you like and dont like..and remember to relax and have fun or it can be a little harder to achieve your goal, also use alot of foreplay to get the party started... thats my opinion hope it helps aphexy :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2008): His dong may be too small.Next time you have sex with him like peter said guid him.Maby let him start and then you press his dick up against the clit.Even dicks the size of twigs can give orgasms when pressed too the top of the vagina.That may very well fix it-but im no pro o_0
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reader, PeterPan  +, writes (5 June 2008):
 Honestly? I think you should just straight out tell him. I'm not sure what else to say... other than this: we guys are pretty thick, but when we care about our women, we're all ears! If you tell him straight out (and don't criticize his current skills - and that's important!).
If that's not going to work for you - being direct - then I would suggest that you *guide* him during your next sexual encounter. More or less, tell him what's working for you and what's not. He'll listen here too!
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