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writes:Okay so, my friend(whos a girl) and I have known eachother for over 2 years. Were besties. Shes bi and is always talking about this girl who shes falling in love with but the girl doesnt really like my friend. Ive just realized I kinda have feelings for my friend..but its hard to tell her and im kinda scared because ive never ever considered myself to be bi or anything. Its never something thats bothered me though..but how do I tell my friend that I love her???...
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reader, kanja  +, writes (28 December 2008):
I know what this feels like,My bi bbf got a girlfreind,I was crushed and told her I loved her,she said she loved me more then her girlfreind but didnt want to sacrafice our freinsdhip.It really hurt.I really feel for you because I never considered myself bi or anything either.I now exactly what this feels like,if it does'nt end up how u want it to just remember that'll in time you will heal.
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reader, rose_red  +, writes (27 July 2008):
I have been in this situation myself
You could be just confusing being so close with having feelings for her
I used to think about my friend every single day and think I was in love with her; but now she has a boyfriend and I realise I do not see her in that way anymore at all.
Sometimes people go through phases- maybe you should talk to her :) if you guys r really close there wud be no problem!x
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reader, MuffinGirl  +, writes (26 July 2008):
 I suppose it's really hard for you, specially cause she's your good friend. In a lot of cases people easier tell someone, who is almost stranger for them that they like or love him/she than someone who knows way much better. I suggest that first try to change your body language and touch her hand or something. Make those small moves (in few days- not in one hour) and you'll soon see her reaction. If it would be good then honestly talk to her about relationship. You probably know that relationships very often becoming from friendships. So be confident and don't go too fast with everything. I wish you all the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2008): take your time, no rush here if you aren't even sure yet maybe that's what you should work on. don't hide it from her but maybe let yourself work out where you are for a bit before you go confessing your undying love for her. let her know that you care about her a lot. and don't be scared everyone gets confused sometimes, it'll just take time to work out. good luck
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