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writes:I have recently started working in a place, where there are 100s of colleagues, but I am attracted to one particular person, who is very popular. We work near each other and are on friendly terms. However, I do not know if he is attracted to me, but he always compliments me and we are , to an extent, close. He does not hide our 'relationship' from others and although people insinuate things, he gets embarassed, to an extent and says 'maybe', but tells people that he loves me, but I do not know what he means. We are both very happy when we are around each other and people have started to notice. How do i know if it is genuine or if he is doing it because people have encouraged him to, as a bet? If he sees me, he calls out and although I used to get embarrassed at first, I don't now. People also give wierd looks, what could that mean? In addition, at the start, he openly asked what attracts me. Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (8 July 2008):
Well why don't you be a bit more flirty and see what happens?
I think this is a situation where you just need to wait and see. He may like you but not want to date a work collegue.
Just do what you are doing and things will work themselves out if they are meant to.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008): Not at work, get hold of him outside of work and talk to him to find out. If you don't have any of his details then you'll have to get them too.
Or just say something like "I need to see you outside work about something,"
If people have encouraged him to do it as a bet, then its likely he'll talk to them about whatever happens. But then thats me assuming, and not a known fact.
So yeah as I said, talk to him outside work about it.
Communication is the key.
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