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How do I stop thinking about her?

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Question - (10 July 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 4 August 2010)
A age , * writes:

I had a bestfriend for 2 years. We have gotten in so many fights in 1 year. It was all me. I dont know why, but we always had a fight over stupid stuff. So i got mad at her again, but this time it hurt me and the next day she told me she didnt want to be my friend anymore.I started to cry and ask her why. She told me she couldnt do it anymore. Ive never had a friend like her. I really liked her. How do i forget her, or stop thinking about her?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2010):

I hope i am not to late,i know your pain very well. If you truly want to keep a friendship give it time, separate yourself from everything that reminds you of her. When the time is right you'll be friends aging. It's not easy but find someone new or let time heal your wounds.

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A female reader, karen1989 United Kingdom +, writes (10 July 2010):

karen1989 agony auntSwallow your pride and apologize. its the only way,beg if u have too. shes your best friend your pride doesnt matter.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010):

Maybe its bugging you because you feel bad about how you treated her? you could try giving her time and then maybe trying to apologise and try to move on by doing new things, meeting new people and making new friends. not as easy as it sounds, but keep yourself busy and appreciate the friends you do have.

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A female reader, PHM El Salvador +, writes (10 July 2010):

PHM agony auntIf she really is your best friend and you truly love her and like her as your bestfriend , fight the problems! talk about it without yelling or saying awful things to each other , a simple talk can solve a LOT Of problems :) , If you are tired of trying or you really want to forget her , then throw away all the stuff that remembers you about her and stop going the places she goes or stop doing things you used to do together But if you really want my opinion and very good advice Fight for your friendship :)

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