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writes:Hey, okay this is kind of two questions in one.Right well to start off with...I've been hurt in the past I was heartbroken and now find it very hard to trust people in a relationship and to believe that their love for me is genuine.So my guy worships me...He's always telling my friends how much he loves me and he always tells me honestly he really goes out of his way to show me how much he loves me and he does the sweetest things but even though I want to believe he does love me there is still an element of doubt...How can I stop myself from doubting him?Also my guy's been flirting with some girls and I know it's only harmless flirting as he would never do anything to hurt me (I think) and I know that even people in the most loving, commiting and trusting relationships go off and flirt with other people because it's only natural and we all do it. I'm not mad at him for flirting thats the thing i'm pissed at him because if I even talk to another guy he flips out and accuses me of cheating on him etc...I'm sick of him being hypocritical...What can I do?Thanks alot! xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2007): Well,Here seems like your Boyfriend may acturally be doing it because you are flirting with other men wich in that case is afraid of losing you I think all is well.Try not to worry you can also send me an personal email~
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reader, doll27 +, writes (17 February 2007):
until the last setence i was thinging, aw what a nice boyf. but he cannot treat you like that. try to explain softly what its like for you, & if he keeps it up you'll be driven away. give him a chance, & if he still carrys on like a kid, go elsewhere. & remember, every body is an individual. ive been hurt too but you have to realise not everyone is the same, give them a chance to show you how they are before you subconstially puy a bad mark on them & assume stuff. be happy, you've always got a choice. XX
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