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36-40,
anonymous
writes:How do I stop crushing on someone I have to see and work with everyday.The other night we were at a sleepover. He started sleeping by my side, holding on to me. At sometime during the night, I realized he had his back to me and was making out with a friend. Needless to say, I was a mix between crushed and angry (we have hooked up before, so I kind of felt betrayed, even though I know I shouldn't because we never said we were anything more than friends). I think I started crushing on this boy because every person that has seen us together has either thought we were dating or has mentioned seeing "something more" in the way he looks at me.He's still friendly towards me, we are friends - but I want to stop this crushing nonsense. Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2011): He is a good guy, and a good friend for the most part. He's one of the few people that can make me smile when I'm in a bad mood. He'll hold my hand, give me hugs, listen to me if I need to talk, drive me home, leave me a piece of his favorite donut... Little things like that.
It's impossible to not spend time with him at work because we're involved in various projects together.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (19 December 2011):
 Well, honestly I don't see why you even have a crush on this guy, none of his actions (that you have mentioned) seems like the kinda guy a girl would WANT to crush on.
He seems like a total horn-dog ( a guy who will sleep/make out) with anyone as long as they are females and willing.
How do you get over the crush? Well every-time you catch yourself thinking he's all that, think about THAT night.
I would try and spend as little time with him and outside of work, I wouldn't spend time chatting with him either.
The thing is, he might have thought you didn't care about him for anything then just to hook up with, so don't be too mad at him. Next time, if you meet someone and you start liking them, take the time to get to know them and to define the relationship.
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