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writes: I still live with my ex girlfriend in a student house with a few mates. We remained very close- practically going out but without the sex. But now shes seeing a new guy.I'm so jealous, i don't know how to control it- i end up causing arguments if i get angry, or hurting her if i get upset.What should i do, its harDest cause we live in the same house so i find out about everything she does (not by choice) and we still friends so i can't just move on... how do i stop these unwanted feelings?
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reader, bonym  +, writes (29 April 2006):
 What you need to do my friend is move out of that accomodation because jealously has a way of growing and growing, its like a rash that only gets worse, it soon becomes intolerable and eventually you will explode. If you remain in a "war zone" expect war, but if you move out to a new pasture, things will hopefully get better. Being friends with her can also be a problem because you will always be thinking about the "past", the relationship, he intimacy etc and that is going to cause major issues. If you move out and move on, you wont have these problems. The other two responses are spot on in my view, you need to move on. xXx
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reader, Aunt Audrey +, writes (29 April 2006):
 Yep angelron's right, meet someone else!
If this really is getting to you I think you should consider moving out and putting some distance between you and your ex, before you do or say something you may regret later out of anger caused by the green eyed monster.
A parting of the ways is best for you both I think, or you may lose her as a friend.
Good luck!
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reader, Angel ron +, writes (29 April 2006):
 meet someone else and don't hang around whre she is
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