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writes:Alright as of now I have two sex partners. One that I have an emotional thing going on with, and the other we're just friends but his sex is just amazing. I've been talking to this other guy for a few days now. And, weirdly I like him a lot. I think a little too much after just a few days of talking. He has a child, and I've come to realize that any of that doesn't matter. He's become comfortable talking to me about his daughter, and I just admire that about him. I think we're in a good place right now. Now let me not get off my topic here, the longest I've went without sex is 2months. Although to some people that may not seem long, but to me it was pretty long. I was cranky those whole two months, and I'm actually starting to get cranky now. Now I know what you guys are probably gonna say.. why don't I watch porn, or play with myself? Porn is just a teaser for me, that actually makes me more cranky because I can't get it now. And playing with myself doesn't satisfy me enough. I just like the feeling of another man better. Honestly, I think playing with myself doesn't really help because it's my hands and I already know what I'm going to do. I already know what to expect. Does that make sense? Well anyway, the guy I'm talking to is really nice and I really like him and can actually see us dating in the future. I'm trying to get rid of both of my sex buddies so I can be 100% faithful to this guy. How do I do that when I'm possibly in love with one sex partner, and addicted to my other sex partner's sex? I want to give this new guy a shot, and I want to do it the right way. And I know when people date rushing into sex isn't a great thing so how do I stay sane without rushing into sex with the new guy, but also being faithful at the same time?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys, and I understand. But I can't rush into having sex with a guy that I've known for only two weeks. I say wait because I'd actually like our first time together to be special..why? Because I like him alot.
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reader, passionatelynumb +, writes (7 August 2010):
 I don't understand your rationale. You are having sex with two other guys. Why do you care about waiting to have sex with this new one? Its not like you are planning to wait for marriage.
I think if I were the new guy and I found out that I had to wait to have sex with you because you "really liked me" while two other guys were getting to have sex with you because you didn't like them as much, I'd be pissed.
Its like you just baked cookies and you gave them away to everyone except the people you "really liked". It doesn't make any sense.
Just have sex with the guy, already. You are young. Its not like you are going to marry him anyway.
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