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writes:since about march of last year my sisters friend has been hanging out a lot and coming over and sleeping over on weekends too. i am really in love with this girl and have had chances to do or say something since last march, i have been alone with her and could of made a move, but didn't. now here it is january 2008, and she is going back to school (college). i'm afraid that she may think i want just to be friends, and two i'm afraid she might find someone in college...anyone got any advice. i am in love with her, and want to tell her. i want to start a romantic relationship with her, but don't know how. Reply to this Question
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reader, MetalMan  +, writes (13 January 2008):
 ok i know how hard it is to ask a girl i mean i put it off for near 3 years but the best thing really is to just go for it and ask her sometime.i think the the prevous advice has the problem of asking your sister which i can see being a problem unless you and your sister are ok with that, but if i asker my sister about asking out her freind i think she would be weirded out but if thats ok with you go ahead but i wouldn't recomend it but can be usefull if you canso make a plan like what you could do if she says yes (thats up to you) and next time you see her ask her if she want to go with you.and you probably ought to do it next time you see her coz if you say i'll do it next time then when next time comes you'll say the same and you'll never do it. say i WILL do it next time i see her and stick by it no matter what!remember faint hart never won fair ladygood luck! hope i've helped
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (13 January 2008):
 Write and tell her your feelings and if she responds, good for you . If not just be her friend.
Find out from your sister how she feels about you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2008): Well you sound a little shy. So why dont you get her mobile number off your sister and send her a text. You could text her and ask her straight out if she would like to go for a drink sometime. Or you could ask her if she would like to go for a nice meal with you. You'll never know what could happen unless you ask.And if you dont ask you could end up regretting it. Go on then.... make the first move...thats the boys job. lol.
Goodluck.
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