A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: for the last few days my boyfriend has been causing arguements with me or just getting the face on for no reason which is making me feel worthless i want to show him how much i love him and to show him that he is the one i want please help!! Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2007): maybe the bad mood he is in doesn't have to with you maybe he is just having trouble in life right now like getting along with him and figuring himself out if this helps i hope it does give me an excleent rating have a nice day good luck christmas xxx
A
female
reader, JJanswers +, writes (23 January 2007):
Hun i think you should just talk to him. or at least try. guys can be stubourn i know but at leats let him know that yourthere for him. Maybe something has happened at home r to a personal friend of his...or maybe he just needs room to breathe. Guys tend to get overwealmed if u keep on at them. Just sit him down, talk to find and ask him what is wrong. If he wants you to know, he will tell you when the time is right. You sond like you love him very much and if something has happened at some point to upset him then the best way to show your love is to be there for him, which doesnt mean physically being next to him 24/7 or trying to impress him. i know its frustrating for now but he will tell you! just say how much you truelly love him and that you are there for him if he needs to talk..or even just needs a hug or a night in watchin films with his fav girl :P but initally, give him some space. Maybe he just needs some air to take in different situations. hope this helps.:) let me know how it goes ok? xx JJ xx
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2007): Get him to talk to you and find out exactly what is wrong. You can't go on like this, it's not fair on you. If he won't tell you then ask for some time apart, just say you cannot go on like this and need time to think out what YOU really want. Life isn't just about him, you get a say in it as well.
Take care
xx
...............................
A
female
reader, dragonette +, writes (23 January 2007):
I think if you want to show him you love him and you are there for him, you should let him know you're worried about how he seems angry over little things lately and that you would like to know if there's anything you can do to help him feel better. Don't forget to give him a good hug =)
...............................
|