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30-35,
*ovechocolate
writes:hi my boyfriend dumped 4 months ago we were only going out for 2 months but im still crazy about him. It feel really low, i don't want anyone else i get offers but refuse eventhough i know i can't get him. He's always on my mind. I think i am in love. If i am in love, why does it hurt so much? Am i too young to be in love? He was my 1st and only boyfriend. When im with him I feel how i was when we were going out with the butterliflies in mt stomach, shyness everything you can think of.I remeber everything he used to say to me. i miss the way he'd hold me i felt beautiful and my confidence was going up, now its dropped.I would like to know if there are any simple methods to get over him, coz im sick n tired of crying over him.I've been really distant to everyone i know,trying not to talk to anyone coz im hurtig too much. Eventhough i care about him so much i really need to forget about him. It will effect our friendship if i don't coz i no he'll see right through my act of pretending to be fine.Thanks for all the help xxx
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reader, lovechocolate +, writes (5 November 2008):
lovechocolate is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks 4 da advice but i can't talk 2 him i tried b4 i gave him a letter 2 tell him how i feel he did not talk about it 2 me ever he just acts like i haven't sed anything
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reader, BlondeBabe x +, writes (28 October 2008):
 Why not try even talking to him about it ?
Or a close friend you just need to get this off your chest and not keep it all bottled up inside as that in the end makes you feel worse.
Once you startt to feel abit better slowly rebuild your friendship again, eventually your feelings will start to go but it will take time.
Believe in yourself and you can do anything you believe you can do!
Good Luck!
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