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writes: well......i cant seem to give my self an orgasm!and i dont know how close i am to getting one!ive gotten to a point....where it gets slightly wet down there, and it gets really tingaly down there too, also after a while my legs start to shake (alot!) and my arms shake a tad bit....(sorta)how close have i gotten? any tips to reach a full orgasm? thnx!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2006): i found that further researching and performing kegel exersises i experienced a much better orgasm and its also a better experience for your partner
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2006): hi there!
Don't worry as this is a question that many women ask when begining to experiment with orgasms etc. I find that the best way to achieve orgasm is to make sure that u r going to be undisturbed, ensure that u are relaxed, i.e in your bed or comfy on the couch. Ideally u should invest in a vibrator, as many women find it easier to orgasm with this, however, you own hand can be equally effective. I find that a tub of lubricant can be helpful. Begin by rubbing some lube over your self until you find a rhythm you r comfy with, perhaps, read some erotic stories, such as , Nancy Friday, Women on Top. The important thing is to be able to let yourself go. Many women feel the first waves of orgasm and this scares tham a little, however, if you let yourself go and dont be afraid to move to move your body and make any sounds that feel natural to u, u should should soon be able to enjoy glorious orgasms, which in turn, should lead to ecellent sexuall relations with a partner.
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