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writes:hey i just have a quick question. my boyfriend and i have been together for about 10 months. and sometimes when were together i tell him i love him, and he says he loves me more. the thing is i dont seehow thats possible so i argue and say no you dont. but then he says prove it. i truely know that i love him more, but i just do not knowhow to prove it to him. please suggestionson how i can prove it to him. thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, UserNameUnavailable  +, writes (6 July 2010):
I had the same problem with my boyfriend and I knew I definitely loved him more. I said I'd prove it and I did (: Basically when he said he loved me more I said, "You don't, I don't understand how you could love me more because I cant put into words how much I love you" & before he got the chance to say anything back, I snogged him. And that shut him up. ;)
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (3 August 2009):
I'm with marieclaire on that one...does it really matter? When he says "prove it" I'm sure he's just having fun with you. If you go out of your way to "prove" your love, it's just going to give him a big head and make him think you'll do anything ridiculous for him. I think you two should find better things to talk about than who loves who more.
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reader, Myrtis +, writes (3 August 2009):
 Auntie Myrtis steps up to the plate to state the obvious:
"Prove it" means he wants you to have sex with him and is afraid to say the words. You're thirteen, for Pete's sake. He's shy, you're shy, and you both have NO business having sex. So stop thinking about it, being intrigued by it, yearning for it, which is what you've been doing since you started reading this paragraph.
You might not like this, but I suggest that you find another boyfriend, one who won't be pressuring you. If you think (in your thirteen-year-old clueless state) you want to stay with this guy, then at least don't allow yourself to be drawn into an argument that is going to end the same way every time. I mean, how dumb is that? He's manipulating you.
Quite frankly, you could go boyfriendless for a while and get your head straight. Then find a guy who appreciates you for who you are and respects you. You've got a long way to go in the dating game - don't screw up your teen years by having sex while you're so young. Until you are ready to take responsibility for the consequences of your actions (meaning that you have to be able to financially and emotionally support a baby without help from your parents, welfare, and your flakey boyfriend who won't be around, trust me), you should avoid guys who ask you to prove anything.
You don't have to prove anything to anyone, ever. Remember that, sweetie. It's some of the best advice you'll ever get.
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