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writes: How do you pluck up the confidence to talk to a guy in the first place, because it really really scares me. I have to say something soon or it'll be too late but i find it so difficult to start up a conversation with him because im so nervous. I don't know how he feels about me, I don't even think he knows who i am, but i really want him too.How can i get enough confidence to start something. Or should i just not bother? I just worry that he won't like me if he gets to know me...
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009): Ok, so i talked to him, on msn (not in persn that would be WAYYY to scary) - thanks for the advice btw guys :)But i really dont think he likes me :/ I've never had a boyfriend and have absolutly no idea what to look out for, what to say etc. so i still shake every time i talk to him :/ any morea dice would be ery mich appreciated, but thank so far :)xx
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reader, meriem1421 +, writes (27 April 2009):
well,i'm going through the exact situation exept the boy i love knows mu full name n he likes me too but i'm just too intense when he's around.
i think u should use the eye contact 2 let him know you're intersted in him.try 2 get close 2 his friends n try 2 walk his way n bump into him,its gonna be so cool cause when i bumped into this boy it was cool!actually his friend pushed him on me but i walked fast n i didn't even give him the chance 23 say sorry!!!!!!!
that's what's gonna happen if u don't pluck up the courage!it might be hard at first but it will be cool other times.
look at me!i'm advicing u of what i could never do!!!!!!!let me know how it goes n good luck!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2009): hey, well if i was you i would look at him a bit more and take in his behaviour if he does like you am sure there will be some signs showing. erm, do you know if any of your friends are freindly with him? if you really like him that bad then your just guina have to be braveee! :) even if you accidently bump into him and say sorry or something just for him to notice you? hmm try to know a bit more about him, sorry i can't be of more help, good luck, :)L.O.V.Exxx
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reader, Niema.x +, writes (27 April 2009):
listen this sounds hard but if you dont find the confidence then the possible relationship you want with him wil not happen. If your really nervous get his MSN and just make conversation. You will be fine , hes a human being just like you
good luck xxx
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