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writes:I really want my girl to have a threesome with me and another guy. im straight but i think it would be hot to watch her enjoying 2 men. how do i persuade her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2008): dude I hate to say this but never have a threesome with a GF you like - it'll cause complications (if it goes well or it doesn't) you can't possibly predict the consequences unless you've done it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2008): If she's not comfortable with it then don't make her. Just ask her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2008): To be honest, with something like a threesome (or any slightly more "out there" sexual activity) you're either into the idea or you're not - if someone really isn't into it, it's possible you might persuade them through bribery, guilt-tripping, threatening to leave them or any other dubious method - but the result will be an experience that neither of you really enjoys that much (because thepassion won't be there) and will ultimately cause resentment and problems between you.So what I would suggest initially is that you assess whether this is something she'd be interested in (luckily the 2 guys 1 girl thing has more appeal to most heterosexual women than 2 women 1 guy.). Don't go straight in and tell her you want to try it, in case taht scares her, waitr until you're having an intimate moment anyway and ask playfully whether its something she's ever fantasised about, what she thinks of the idea. If you two are into porn, you could get hold of a DVD with a threesome scenario in it and see how she reacts. If she's completely disgusted by the idea, it's pretty safe to assume thats a no, and leave it at that - its not going to happen. If she seems interested in the idea in a fantasy situation, you can probe a little further and ask whether she'd be open to the idea of trying it out for real. If she's says yes straight away, or even "maybe - I'd have to think about it." that's cool, keep talking about it and see whtehr you can arrange something. If she's not sure - maybe a bit scared about ruining the relationship, then it's best to leave it for now, going on and on about it is just a turn off - ask her again in a few months time and see how she feels.
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (13 December 2008):
 "How do I persuade my g/f to have a threesome"$10,000 to any one who can come up with a fool-proof method.
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (13 December 2008):
 I absolutely agree with emporessmystique.
You can discuss your feelings with her, but I thouroughly suggest that you don't if you wish to have a long-lasting and loving relationship with her.
It really will drive a wedge inbetween you by getting another person involved, especially if it's sexually like in this case.
If you decide that you want to discuss it with her, choose your words carefully and if she says no, then it's no. You shouldn't keep trying to persuade her.
If she says yes then by all means do it, but I'm afraid to say that it will probably put holes through your foundation that every relationship stands on - trust.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2008): you cant make somene do something they dont want to do, if you love her you'll accept her decision.
only thing you can do really is sit down with her and talk to her about.
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (13 December 2008):
 Do you love her.? If you do then please don't have her do all this stuff.. It'll break your relation..
And if you don't love her, i won't wanna answer this question.. It's gross..
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