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writes:Well me and my girlfriend are considered a odd couple. She is 5'9, slim, and a very beautiful chocolate goddess. I am 5'3 and husky. She is very much a turn-on to me. She could literally be a pornstar. I on the other hand am not really eye appealing. She gets hit on a lot. The problem is that she has a sex drive that makes me wanna pass out. She literally told that she can have sex all day long. We have sex 3-5 times daily and it really wears me out. Just a few days ago I felt I was gonna need a stunt double or stand in just to make it through the day. She is phenomenal in bed and is nowhere near boring. She brings out the best in me and I love her so how do I make this work and not burn myself out?
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (13 October 2014):
 I would tone it down to twice a day the most. She's not going to die from that. You can indulge once in a while, maybe on birthdays but to do 3-5 times daily is impractical. Find something else to do that creates a loving connection. Go outside more. Even if she's beautiful she may worry that you are losing attraction to her if you are not keeping up with the sex regime. Kindly tell her this is not the case. You need time to replenish your energy and fluids. A refractory period also takes time. She said she can have sex all day long. It does not mean she demands it or needs it to be happy. You can perhaps take what she said as a compliment and the chemistry is good, but not as a condition that must be met or else. A reasonable person would expect that the frequency to be lower after you get comfortable in the relationship. Unless she has some addiction and a need to prove that she's good in bed to keep a man. No one should have to tell a person that moderation is good. A relationship is equal. It doesn't matter what you look like on the outside. You should not feel like you have to work extra hard to keep her. If she complains about it then she does not have a good understanding of how a man's penis works and is not suitable for a monogamous relationship.
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