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writes:Hi everyone,I am 22yr old and have just come out of a 3yr relationship. My first love and sex experiance. He ended it with me and i was devastated. Its been a month now i feel better in myself and i seem to be getting interest fron men. One in particular has caught my eye, he is a friend of a friend and we met over fb, where we sent lots of messages, i have finally give him my number.I think hes sweet and tells me how gorgeous i am and that he wants to meet up. But I have recently found out from our mutual friend that he has slept with 35 people! but apparantly he isnt a player hes just looking for the right girl.I need to know what to do? I want to meet up with him. I dont think he wants to meet up for one thing but how can i be sure if he has slept with so many peopleWould appreciate a response xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2008): meet him but just dont sleep with him until you know that he not just after one thing. 35 people sounds a lot but its his past not right now. if you do sleep with him just make sure you use something!
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reader, Teacake  +, writes (6 December 2008):
 --- he has slept with 35 people! but apparantly he isnt a player hes just looking for the right girl. ----
Oh, this guy is a total player! You don't sleep with that many girls to find the right one. The right one is not going to sleep with him so quickly. You already know in your heart that he is a huge player and has plans to use you just the same way he uses all other girls. Certainly he tells them all how pretty they are, why not? He wants pretty girls to go to bed with him and manipulates them with the words they want to hear.
Run run run away from this guy. He might never find the right girl and if he does, it won't be for years to come if he ever grows up, that is.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (6 December 2008):
 He hasnt met the right one yet by the sounds of it. Does he do his dating on line? There is always another woman round the next corner if he does. The two main things you should worry about initially is,,is he in a relationship now while he is interested in you, And if he has been so sexually active to make sure if you have sexual relationships with him, he isnt going to give you more than you bargained for like an STD. I'd do a bit more research on him first and make sure there isnt 'a Mrs'. in the background somewhere. Good luck.
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