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writes: I guys, I'm a 16 year old male and have just entered my first gay relationship, well "relationship" for that matter. First time I've ever been in one, and I'm excited and scared at the same time. Me and my boyfriend have going out for two weeks and he knows my situation so we're taking it slow. Holding hands, hugs, a cute kiss on a cheek. But I haven't built up the courage to really make out with yet. One, I'm scared i wont do it right, two I'm scared he won't like it... since it would be my first real kiss too. I'm really nervous but I'm insanely attracted to him and I wanna show him that affection. How can I do this? How do I make out with him? If any of you can help please do so. Then i'd be able to move on because i'm still nervous about being really close to him. any advice and suggestions are accepted. Thanks in advance
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reader, der_zyniker +, writes (26 September 2010):
Well your first kiss is probably going to be awkward. If things are awkward do you really think that he would leave you or something like that. However, I suppose being nervous before your first kiss is only natural. You'll do just fine. I agree with what one of the previous Aunts wrote. Just let things happen. Don't try to force this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2010): Yea, I was really awkward for my first kiss. He had never kissed anyone either, but managed to well enough.
As for plans, that's probably what made me feel the MOST awkward. It might just be my personal preference that things just kind of "happen" when they seem right, so it'll work itself out and you'll feel comfortable in no time :)
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reader, paulomiller  +, writes (26 September 2010):
Hi...I think so that first you have to kiss a girl... before you take this road on be a gay .. try be with a woman ..Woman is way much bettter than a man..woman can gives to you friendship, love and family I had and I have gays friends and their lives are sad....usually they die alone..why do you want be a gay? maybe this attraction that you have for him is ajust away that you want to be... maybe his is the body that you want have...you are too young..you don't have any experience yet about the life.. you have sure that you are gay? do you want to be Gay? what a man can give to you that a Woman can't give to you.. Woman can do whatever you want to on bed even in ... women are more loving than man because they are made for help us be a better man ...everyday step by step .. if you go on this road this will be your end....Think, rethink your position ..How many girlfriends did you have? some girl hurt you? don't worry about it there are billions of pretty women in the earth so you can find abeautiful and good girl...finish this relation with this guy...go work out ..make your body stronger ..Don't let other man take your strenght and this will happen if you really became a gay! gay men are weak ,they don't have any strenght, they don't have power to be a real man... you are still young ..you are curious about something that will make you unhappy fo life
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reader, Duckyhelp  +, writes (26 September 2010):
 If he understands your situation as you say then you shouldnt be worried :)
Your kisses might not be perfect but you get better with practise ;)
haha good luck he sounds great so you shouldnt be worried :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2010): If your boyfriend is taking things slow and knows your situation, then dont worry. Hes not putting any pressure on you, hes respecting your decisions. Just kiss him like you would if he just came back from a mysterious island after being trapped there for 10 yrs... Sweet, slow, and romantic. Good Luck.:]
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