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writes: I am 3 months pregnant and living with my boyfriend of over a year. He is such a great guy, but there is one thing bothering me. He constantly goes out to the bar. He breaks plans and ditches me to hang out with his friends, usually at a bar. He sees nothing wrong with it, and doesn't even apologize sometimes. He often takes my car, leaving me at our apartment by myself. I worry, get stressed out and try to make him understand that he is hurting me, but nothing gets through. I don't mind him going out once in awhile, but when he makes plans with me only to ditch me and go to the bar, and doesn't bother to call, it's causing a huge stressor in our relationship. How do I make my boyfriend see that we are having a baby and it's time to grow up?!? Reply to this Question
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reader, Toria +, writes (24 September 2006):
 You need to talk to him and try and get through to him telling him that being a Dad is a big responsibility and he needs to live up to that and start acting responsible also taking your feelings into consideration as you are carrying his baby and all he is doing is disrespecting you and causing you stress which isn't good for the baby.
If all else fails maybe a big wake up call is needed and you need to leave and make him see how much he wants you and this baby and make him realise what is important.
Good luck :o)
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